@SteinNebraska My husband and I are Americans living here in VN. Sometimes, we need to stop and empathize with others rather than criticize them, especially when we aren't walking in their shoes. I would hope that if you had posted such a message that someone would have offered empathy, options, and compassion for your situation.-@Xpatnamlife
And yet, your first impulse is not to first offer an empathetic and compassionate reply with realistic and helpful options to the OP, but instead, dredge up issues you've apparently been keeping suppressed until now...
...there are a few American expats on this forum who either seem to know all answers to all situations or they are just rude and shouldn't post anything at all. -@Xpatnamlife
I object to that on behalf of my Aussie, Kiwi, Scot & Eastern European friends here. Please don't confine your praise to us Yanks 😉
I am a nurse of 25 years AND a physical rehabilitation nurse. The recovery and rehab for such an injury is intensive and long. It is completely within reason for it to take 10 months to get back to "normal" activities, especially in a foreign country when oftentimes the access to modern conveniences that many Americans take for granted is limited. -@Xpatnamlife
As a retired RN with extensive experience in physical rehabilitation therapies, I totally agree with you.
Just 2 things:
1. Why didn't you express your compassion directly to the OP instead of giving him a backhand acknowledgement as a part of chastising someone else?
2. This is sadly just the latest of many, many, MANY posts in this forum over the years where the harsh reality of life in Việt Nam (which far too many expats TOTALLY ignore when moving & living here) hits a person like a freight train.
The simple answer to this thread (based on the title and the OP's post) is that there is NO WAY to live in Việt Nam without a job, except by taking advantage of the charity of people who usually make far less money while barely having enough to care for their own families.
Some people in this forum take on the role of empathetic sympathizers, and more power to them for that.
But some of us usually prefer to serve up cold, hard facts which may make us unpopular, but we leave behind important information and insights which will hopefully be beneficial to future casual readers of threads such as this.
Also, please don't be oblivious to the time-proven reality that some anonymous posters will use sympathetic posts such as this to solicit donations, an activity expressly forbidden in the forum code of conduct.
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